Through interviews provide appropriate cases counseling service users , to help them overcome the difficulties encountered in all aspects of debt distress caused by gambling , emotions, relationships, family , school, health , etc., and when there is a need for them to turn referral and other professional services
- Registered Consultant Lawyer
- Counselling Psychologist
- Clinical Psychologist
- Registered Social Worker (RSW) & Registered Counsellors
- Certified Gambling Counsellors (CGC) & Certified Gambling Trainers (CGT)
WONG, Yuk-ming Jessie
B.A.(Hons) in Social Work
M.Soc.Sc in Counselling
Certified Gambling Counsellor (CGC)
Certified Gambling Counselling Trainer (CGC)
Registered Social Worker (Hong Kong)
I have read a book “THE POWER IS WITHIN YOU” written by Louise L. Hay. I strongly agree with her that she believe everyone has inner power. We can free and control by our mind.
“There is a Power within each of us that can lovingly direct us to our perfect health, perfect relationships, perfect careers, and which can bring us prosperity of every kind. Blame is about giving away one’s power. Responsibility gives us the power to make changes in our lives. If we can use our problems and illnesses as opportunities to think about how we can change our lives, we have power. Responsibility is our ability to respond to a situation. We always have a choice.
We cannot do anything tomorrow and yesterday, but we can only do it today! What is important is what we are choosing to think, believe, and say right now. The point of power is always in the present moment. You are in control of your mind. You can choose the best for yourself.
Forgive of yourself and other because everyone have limitations and did something wrong didn’t alert. Don’t waste your time! If you need help and guidance, feel free to seek help from counsellor or social worker. They will use their profession knowledge to empower and enable you to get positive and supportive power — inner wisdom to fulfill your actual needs. Hope you have healthy lifestyle and enjoyed yourself in the present moment!
NG, Man-chun Matthew
B.Soc.Sc.(Hons) in Social Work
Master of Christian Marriage & Family Therapy
Cert. in Clinical Pastoral Education
Registered Social Worker (Hong Kong)
Why people gamble? Different people give different answers. Some people pursuit excitement & pleasure through gambling , some people utilize gambling to avoid get in touch with inner pain, some people use gambling to reduce pressure, some people intend to demonstrate one’s wisdom & intellectual through gambling. Many problem-gamblers wish to make money through gambling, they deeply recognize the power of money, they realize that Hong Kong is a money-mined society , even though money do not posses power without limit , people without money would suffer a lot . Problem-gamblers were poisoned by the money-mined ideology of materialistic Hong Kong Society , they pursuit money blindly without critical thinking and value judgement, they believe that they can get fortune through gambling, it is a short-cut to make money.
In the opposite, gambling brings problem-gamblers lot of debts , harassment or threat from money-lenders towards their family members. This fact is in response to 1 Timothy 6:10 ” For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs＂. In fact, the nature/meaning or true reality of gambling token is not only money itself , it is family relationship , marital relationship, one’s job , one’s faithfulness indeed. Many problem-gamblers pierced themselves & their families with hazard and chaos through gambling ,they wish to abandon problem-gambling, but their gambling-addiction indulgence is similiar to drug addiction indulgence ,they are being caught and trapped, and they lose capabilities to make free choice . The situation is in response to Romans 7:15 ＂I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do , but what I hate I do .” and Romans 7:21-23 ” So I find this law at work : when I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members. ＂ For the problem-gamblers I get in touch, their embarrasement is described in Romans 8:24 ＂What a wretched man I am ! Who will resuce me from this body of death ? ” Lot of problem-gamblers’ families are ruined, marriage get divorced , they commit suicide themselves at the end.
As a counsellor for problem-gamblers, I urge to give advice to problem-gamblers & their deeply-hurted family members ; adversity is not the end, one could recover resiliently from valley of the shadow of death, we shall overcome someday . Zion Social Service Yuk Lai Hin Counselling Centre use various individual and family counselling approaches integrated with group psychotherapy ; for example : Gamblers Anonymous, Self-help group , football group …..etc., intervention approaches to help problem-gamblers to get rid of problem gambling ,never gamble again. For the deeply confessional souls , they confess to their sin of gambling, I would let them know the God my Lord Jesus Christ, the savior of human beings, He is the source of might, anyone who accept Jesus Christ as their saviour could gain power from Him, receiving counselling from Holy Spirit to overcome the temptation of gambling ; Philippians 4:13 ” I can do everything through Him who gives me strength ＂ Hence, as a new born Christian, to follow the truth of Bible and God’s Word to live, to establish new life without gambling. I am eager to become your comrade to fight problem-gambling, to tackle what difficulties may be encountered during counselling process !
YIM, Ho-yu Jeffery
Dip.(Hons) in Counselling and Psychology
M.COUN., The University of New England (Australia)
Registered Counsellor (APCA)
There is a long history for Gambling and is normally no doubt interpreting that as an entertainment, a general gathering between friends or anything orthodox. Gambling had been looked squarely and had been being handled with counselling for just ten and something years. It is thought that gambling causes the problem of addiction and debt only. However, the inducement of addiction, the extended problem and the problem of relapse are most likely being ignored. As counsellors of gambling, we are not magicians and are impossible to stop their gambling behavior within just several chit-chats. Nevertheless, no matter how serious is the gambling addiction, it is not in despair. When a gambler definitely declares to abstain gambling, accompanying with systematic assessments and counselling, we do believe that they can abstain it.
Master of Social Science (Counselling)
I am not interested in whatever form of gambling, the most fascinating thing is the changes that people make for them, the changes from which I feel contented and joyful. Every time when clients can make choice for themselves without being entangled into a downward spiral, the fountain of joy would emerge from within myself. This makes me believe that counselling is indeed efficacious for people who are in need. The fact that everyone has the ability to change him/herself is what I believe; however not every one of us realizes its presence and makes full use of it.
In the past few years of learning to become a counsellor, the most precious moment is being alone with myself, a state of solitude in which I can talk to myself and be sensitive to my feelings and needs underneath. What I experienced was from a state of being ignorant to a state of more acquainted to myself and from a state of self rejecting to a state of self acceptance. The most important attribute of being a counsellor is to keep self growth as part of my life; otherwise client’s life will be ruined in response to my stagnancy. My role of being a counsellor will cease whenever I remain stagnant. My life keeps transforming is simply because of my personal growth.
LEUNG, Kai Chung Common
Bachelor of Social Science (Hons)
Hi, I am LEUNG Kai-chung. All my friends and colleagues would like to call me Common. What, Common?! Are you sure? Yes, it is my English name. I like this name because I am very common in human nature. I am a registered social worker. In the past 25 years, I worked in a children and youth centre, employment service centre, family counseling centre, school and a hotline service centre. Now, it is my pleasure to join in this family as a counsellor.
Someone enjoy gambling since it is very exciting. They sometimes reward money as they win. Some people think that gambling is one of the social activities to keep friends in touch. Also, some people use gambling to show how they are wisdom and clever when they win. For some people even think that they can earn their living by gambling. Is that all true? Definitely not, gambling will nibble away you no matter in your career development, family and whole life after you addict to gamble. Come on, do not hesitate to voice out your problems with me. My colleagues and I would try our best to help you deal with them.
YIM, Ting-Ling Augusta
Master in Counselling Psychology
Bachelor (Hons) in Counselling and Psychology
HKPS Graduate Member
Hello everyone, I am Augusta. I am the counseling psychologist of Zion Social Service Yuk Lai Hing Counselling Centre.
For me, gambling is so close, yet so far. Although I do not participate in any gambling activity, making decision in our life is actually like gambling, in which we cannot completely ensure the decisions that we make are correct or not. However, in order to make choices and decisions in our life, we often need to be courageous to step out of our own comfort zones. For those who have gambling addiction, to what extent that their choices and decisions are influenced by gambling? Is it a must for the choices and decisions that they make in life to be influenced by gambling? Do they really want to be influenced by gambling in their entire life? Indeed, are they aware of how gambling is affecting their life?
Those with gambling addiction may rethink about the above questions in the process. The process of gaining more self-awareness, stepping out of comfort zone and making the choice to change is no doubt a precious part of the counseling journey.
Ip, Ka-fai Godfrey
M.Soc.Sc. in Counselling
“Our lives are strings of Todays. In these Todays, we are taking first steps, again and again…. Although there may be things blocking our way, they are not the way itself. No matter how dark along the way, the hand always knows the way to the mouth… The current of life requires us to stand up, again and again… Our strength will continue if we allow ourselves to feel scared, weak, and vulnerable, for then we accept ourselves as we are…” (thoughts extracted from The Book of Awakening by Mark Nepo).
If not now, when? Today may I be your companion along the way!
CHU, Ho Ming David
Master of Social Science in Social Work
Registered Social Worker
Many people think that gambling will enhance wealth, compensate for debt, build up self-confidence and gain recognition. Besides, many people believe that gambling will alleviate pressure and regard gambling as entertainment. In fact, these concepts are absolutely wrong. In contrast, gambling will not only lead to bankruptcy and aggravate pressure, but also undermine personal well-being, implicate family members and destruct friendship. Undoubtedly, gambling is absolutely harmful and does not have any advantages. Gamblers will certainly become losers.
Gambling counselling is a long-term solution. I wish to help gamblers and their family members by mean of counselling, groups, activities and community education. Gamblers, their family members and I will face and overcome all adversity, difficulties and obstacle together in the future. Most importantly, termination of all contact and interaction with gambling friends and gambling information, healthy lifestyle, proper financial management, appropriate hobbies, and proper values of work and life are the most effective prevention from problem and pathological gambling.
Master of Social Work (MSW)
B. Soc. Sc. (Hons)
Gambling in China has a very long history, and Chinese and Westerners gambling habits are different. Chinese people like to gamble with others rather that against the machine. Mahjong, Sic Bo (Tai-Sai), Baccarat are the most popular Chinese gambling games, these games all need more than one people to play. While gambling, people would like to chat with others, because the Chinese people like the lively atmosphere, and do not like the machine gambling. Since the Chinese people view gambling as a kind of socialization culture, and it is views as a kind of friends and family-style entertainment, this traditional view that gambling in the Chinese society is deep-rooted, as a result the Chinese problematic gambler ratio is higher than the British, the United States and Western countries. In recent years, many adult and children’s game centers have acquired some gambling games, and the Amusement Centres with Prize has also acquired the “Coin Pusher “, ” Rainbow Throw ” and other gambling games, the fact that gambling and gaming have been mixed together means that gambling has been normalized for children and youth. Once these children and young people became addicted to the gambling games, they may neglect their studies and become problematic gamblers. Therefore, teenagers and adults with social gambling or problem gambling should seek the help for gambling counseling services. Get rid of gambling addiction, give yourself a chance. Call us for help.